I have owned my new horse for 3 months and have recently decided to try join-up with him as he is quite nervous and I just want him to be happy. I do not have access to a round pen and so I have only been able to join-up with him in a 20m by 40m arena. I keep him on a yard on a very busy farm, and horses are turned out on two sides of the arena- the other two sides are flanked by a house and the farms main road. I have managed to have reasonably successful join-ups the first two times (only having trouble with drawing him into me, but he always comes eventually) but today when I tried to send him away, he only went in a half-hearted trot, and despite showing me all the signs when I invited him to come and join-up with me he continued to walk around the arena before becoming distracted and wandering off. I tried sending him away again. This time he did join-up with me, but half-way through follow up, he became distracted again and walked off to investigate a patch of grass. When I tried to lock eyes on eyes, he took flight but yet again when I had achieved follow-up he became distracted. I definitely did not look him in the eye during follow up but I expect it was my fault, but I'm not sure what I did. The yard was exceptionally busy today because there was a shoot happening later in the day- do you think this could have played a part in my horse's unwillingness to stick with me? Please help, I want the best for my horse.
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Congratulations for successfully achieving Join-Up already with your new friend. You have shared with him that you know his language. Monty says it isn't necessary to repeat the dialog too many times once he trusts you. Do you feel that he is more relaxed around you now? It might take a little more time for him to acclimate to the yard yet though. Continue to live by the principles of Join-Up now such as when you catch him up from the paddock or when you enter a stall. Remind him you speak his language :)
Brilliant thank you, he does seem to be more relaxed in general now so I will leave it at that. Thanks for getting back so promptly!
What I find very useful is doing a short version of Follow-up, when I come and pick the horse up after work or on the paddock. Just stand in front of him, give him a rub and take off to his right, towards his hindquarters in an arch. Most horses start licking and chewing right away.
Do both directions. This confirms to the horse your leadership and the fact that you speak his language.A good way to end on a positive note at the end of a session,too.
Thanks for that miriam, I'll try that after I've next worked him!